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If you never felt attraction to another human being, you are most probably asexual. Just let a potential partner know in advance that you are asexual. However, most women who wrote to me also mentioned that they have felt attraction previously. And, most of them said that once they do start having sex, they enjoy it — at least to some degree.
If you have a similar experience, I can say with conviction that you are not asexual. The question remains then: how come you are not interested in sex? Or, at least, by some arousal cue — such as the image of a sexy body for example. On the other hand, responsive desire arrises once you start feeling pleasure in your body.
Say, after your partner started touching you in a very special way. And even though we think desire equals spontaneous desire, it seems that responsive desire is quite common. What you do need, is to understand that this is completely normal. And then let your partner know that your desire is mostly responsive. Your partner needs to be aware that your desire is activated by pleasure.
And together you can make a plan that will be fun and enjoyable for you both. Pardon my French. It is misguided, misleading, manipulative, and at times, let me add, disgusting.
As a result of our twisted upbringing, most of us carry a belief or two — potentially more — around sex that is doing us some damage. Some of these beliefs are conscious and some are not so conscious. But many of us are controlled by these beliefs and our sex lives suffer greatly. Some of us have never experienced a truly satisfying sexual encounter. And having an ongoing fulfilling sex life with the same longterm partner is deemed impossible. You have a recipe for a mediocre-or-less-than-mediocre sex life.
No wonder you are not interested in it. You and your partner should be watching porn together. It doesn't have to be weird. From breakup sex to mile high sex, here's the rundown on all the ways to do it. In case you needed more convincing, there are nine reasons having sex is good for you. Sign In. Type keyword s to search. Today's Top Stories. Related Stories. Sometimes, a woman will be horny and ready for sex without you having to do anything to get her in the mood. Yet, in almost all cases, most women need you to turn them on by building up the sexual tension between you.
Sexual tension: An exciting feeling that occurs when a man and woman feel sexual attraction for each other, but the escalation to sex is being delayed by them, the environment or circumstance e. Whether you are meeting a woman for the first time, trying to get out of the friend zone with a woman you have a crush on or are 20 years into a marriage, the same rule applies. Women LOVE the exciting feeling of releasing built up sexual tension with kissing and sex. When you build up sexual tension correctly, a woman not only wants to have sex with you, but she also feels like she NEEDS to have sex with you to release the built up tension between you.
Sex becomes something that she really wants to do with you. She feels the tingle down there and wants to get you inside. Doing this is a display of confidence and masculinity that will immediately make her feel girly in your presence.
One way to do that is to bring her in for a hug and tell her to relax with you for a minute. Keep touching her all over her body and expressing your desire for her. Your touch and your desire for her will begin to turn her on. For example: If a woman is attracted to you and wants to have sex with you, she might test you by pretending to not even like you or feel no attraction for you, just to see how you respond. She wants to confirm that you are a confident man and are worthy of being in a more dominant position than her.
It makes sense for her to open up and receive you because you are a more dominant, masculine force. When she sees that you remain strong and believe in yourself no matter how much she tests you, it allows her to relax into feeling like a real woman around you.
She can trust in you to be the man at all times and that allows her to be more feminine around you. The more feminine that you make a woman feel in your presence, the more sexually turned on she will be when interacting with you.
In my online training programs here at The Modern Man, I provide many examples of how to make women feel feminine in your presence. Making a woman feel that way is much more efficient and reliable than trying to get a woman to like you by talking to her for hours or taking her out on a series of dates! You may have seen other guys do that in the past, but not known what was going on and why the woman suddenly became so attracted.
You can have the same effect on women. One of the ways to make a woman feel some attraction for you is to laugh at her pre-sex tests. If a woman feels attracted to you and begins to think about sleeping with you that night, she may test you by pretending not to like you to see if you squirm and become nervous around her. She is simply trying to find a guy who is strong enough for her, mentally and emotionally.
You can pass any test that a woman puts you through and if you want to learn more about that, keep learning from me here at The Modern Man. The key here is not to answer her in a serious, logical manner or get into a deep and meaningful discussion about how you feel. Remember, attraction comes first and everything else follows that.
The more attracted you can make her feel before making a comment like that the better. This turns her on because you are displaying emotional strength around her rather than insecurity. Women are attracted to the emotional strength of men and turned off by any emotional weaknesses a guy has e. When you realize that women want you to display confidence and they actually feel attracted to it even though many will pretend not to , you will find it so much easier to be the confident guy that you know you are on the inside.
The fact is, there are so many things that you can say and do around a girlfriend or wife in a relationship that will make her feel sexually attracted to you. When you begin interacting with women in a way that causes them to feel attracted to you, women naturally want to be with you.
Use The Flow the next time you talk to a woman and you will be able to make her feel intense attraction for you. You will know exactly what to say and do to make her want to have sex with you or be your girlfriend. In many cases, the woman will even tell you that she likes you and wants something to happen between you and her. Use The Flow the next time you interact with her and she will feel a sudden rush of attraction for you.
When she suddenly feels sexually attracted to you, her behavior, conversation style and attitude will immediately begin to change. She will feel drawn to you and will open herself up to the potential of hooking up with you. What matters is that you now make her feel very attracted to you. When you notice that she is attracted to you you will learn about that in The Flow , simply use my rejection-proof techniques to transition from a conversation to a date, or to a kiss and then sex.
You will be surprised at how easy it is to do and how happy she is when you finally kiss and have sex. Use the techniques from Make Her Love You For Life to create a brand new dynamic in your relationship that will automatically and consistently build up sexual tension between you and her. The Flow is my simple-to-use, proven-to-work process for getting laid, getting a girlfriend or getting out of the friend zone.